The reason why I do not blog / update my blog for quite a long time is because I bloghop now. Not only my friends' blogs, but also some strangers blogs, where, I came there by typing
'baju kahwin'
'baju pengantin'
and yes, I arrived at their blogs.
Almost all blog owners that I visited either are in processto become someone's wife, or someone's fiance, or someone's mom (1st pregnancy, most of it). And yes, some of them are honeymooning.
When I read through their honeymoon trips, together with their husbands, I come to think of myhoneymoon. Sad, yes, that I have not yet deciding where and when should I go for honeymoon after our receptions. Ya, we do have one trip off Malaysia, but that will be with my family - Abang, Ijah,Niko and Zara. Not just both of us. So, you see, I will not have my own privacy with my new-found(hehe) husband that time, nor I have memories to create before we get back to the hectic life we have (read: work work work) in Malaysia.
I dont know, I feel like crying whenever I read their blogs, going to the honeymoon together,the husband being so nice and sweet, sik perlu cerita la pompuan mesti la always nice and sweet.
But when it comes to me, I don't recall him as being nice and sweet, lately, anymore.
I don't recall him to be part of my wedding day preparation.
And believe it or not, it's 4 months to go and I have yet to finalise ANYTHING.
Sometimes it frustrating to read other people's blog and then become frustrated. Heh.
Initially twas searching for the bride's dress ideas. Then all the blogs started to show.
Whenever I need a hand from my fiance, we are in not-talking-to-each-other (read: kelahi) mode.
Whenever I need my sister to help me on design and ideas, she is busy with her thesis, Zara and her husband.
Whenever I need my friends, they are either working, or studying. Worse, I don't have any other friends to help me.
I feel pathetic towards the W-day.
I feel like giving up all the preparations.
I fell like giving up - us.
Help me.
'baju kahwin'
'baju pengantin'
and yes, I arrived at their blogs.
Almost all blog owners that I visited either are in processto become someone's wife, or someone's fiance, or someone's mom (1st pregnancy, most of it). And yes, some of them are honeymooning.
When I read through their honeymoon trips, together with their husbands, I come to think of myhoneymoon. Sad, yes, that I have not yet deciding where and when should I go for honeymoon after our receptions. Ya, we do have one trip off Malaysia, but that will be with my family - Abang, Ijah,Niko and Zara. Not just both of us. So, you see, I will not have my own privacy with my new-found(hehe) husband that time, nor I have memories to create before we get back to the hectic life we have (read: work work work) in Malaysia.
I dont know, I feel like crying whenever I read their blogs, going to the honeymoon together,the husband being so nice and sweet, sik perlu cerita la pompuan mesti la always nice and sweet.
But when it comes to me, I don't recall him as being nice and sweet, lately, anymore.
I don't recall him to be part of my wedding day preparation.
And believe it or not, it's 4 months to go and I have yet to finalise ANYTHING.
Sometimes it frustrating to read other people's blog and then become frustrated. Heh.
Initially twas searching for the bride's dress ideas. Then all the blogs started to show.
Whenever I need a hand from my fiance, we are in not-talking-to-each-other (read: kelahi) mode.
Whenever I need my sister to help me on design and ideas, she is busy with her thesis, Zara and her husband.
Whenever I need my friends, they are either working, or studying. Worse, I don't have any other friends to help me.
I feel pathetic towards the W-day.
I feel like giving up all the preparations.
I fell like giving up - us.
Help me.
sabar emma..
ReplyDeletebiase la darah manis slalu nk gaduh2.
nk mintak tlg aku bleh.
tp aku pun xtau pape sal wed.
tlg teman bleh la. :)
pompuan mmg cmni ke?
ReplyDeletecikgu ain aku pn cmni gak tp aku dh slowtalk ;)
bersederhana je.
hehe..
Dilla,
ReplyDeleteTu la, aku sabar je ni. Sedih tau. Aku runsing sampai kaki crammed tu. Huhu.
Soul,
Mungkin ye, sebab pompuan slalu nya takkan kahwin lain and ni first and last :P
Sederhana itu baik, tapi make it memorable.
soul, kitorg ppuan lg puas hati if sume benda bleh buat sendiri.
ReplyDeletebukan nk besar2 pun, tp setiap details tu penting.
biar hasil tgn, penat lelah sendiri, br puas hati. :)
Yes... kadang2 buat sendiri lebih murah, memandangkan design lebih cantik daripada kita beli. Betul tak dilla?
ReplyDeleteSoul,kau bila nak langsung?
oh dear..kenapa mcam tu..hang in there ok.
ReplyDeletedugaan semasa bertunang memang macam tu.it is not necessarily from 3rd party,but basically more to you and your fiance.
i had my own downtime too during my preparation.at one point i broke down because its consuming too much of my energy.
alhamdulillah everything went well.
insya allah yours will too.tgk prep orang lain boleh,tapi jgn buat u rasa helpless and incapable ok.ingat,masing2 ada kelebihan masing2 including you.
cheer up! :)
p/s: sorry panjang pulak komen nih,dahla orang baru.huhu.
Hi YunaYuni,
ReplyDeleteGlad that you stopped by my blog, recognised you from whitelacetale :) <- this girl has so much ideas and details, i like :))
Thanks for your encouragement. Now I'm slowly picking up all the ideas and suggestions since
my engagement day untuk my W-day. But slowly, and being me with not so creative ideas,
sebab tu needs to browse around but I haven't ask around that much.
Glad to hear that yours went well. Even you broke down at one point, by hook or by crook
that path needs to be taken kan. Hard or easy, depends on the person itself right. You have
proved to everybody you are capable :)
Thanks again yea. Your comment, panjang memang panjang...haha. But it cheered me up tau :)))
b strong..lps kawen lg bnyk perlu ditempuhi
ReplyDeleteagreed tgk preps org lain, bolehla mencilok idea or at least berangan..but rasanya lebih elok "ukur baju di badan sendiri"
honeymoon tidak semestinya di tempat2 yg gah...berdua sahaja di rumah pun boleh dikatakan honeymoon..nk sejuk duduk sblh peti ais =p
aku 'lambat' lagi..tgg ko dpt anak baru aku lak.
ReplyDeletehye emma..
ReplyDeletejgn down..sabar kay...
is there anything i can help u wif?
Soul, ye ke kau lambat lagi? Aku dengar cam dah nak pak pak bum bum dah tu :P
ReplyDeleteHi D,
Nanti Ema mintak tolong D kalau ada apa2 eh.Thanks tau.
soul tipu.
ReplyDeletesoul tipu.
ko x sempat dpt anak lg.
tp sempat honeymoon la, br soul. :)
halamak..kantoi;p
ReplyDeletepak pak bum bum ko..skrg xpkai kompang daa.
Soul!!!!
ReplyDeleteKau dah nak kawen tapi tak bitau aku eh!!!
Haha. Bulan 12 la ni kan. Walauwey, serious anak kita nanti sebaya. Jangan lupa anta anak skolah sama2. Yeay.
Dila, thanks kerana memberitahu precious secret ni. Woohoo. Dilla, kau dah bertemu2 dengan sebelah pihak tu, mesti tak lama lagi tu :P
ms tepung, I indeed "mengukur baju di badan sendiri". I take someone else's idea but I implement them in a cheaper way. Thanks anyway. And I didn't ask for an expensive honeymoon either, just that some alone time with my future husband. :P